Being Transparent in an Opaque World

I just came from seeing my parents and my Uncle and Cousin who were visiting for the weekend.   I showed them my blog and we started discussing Social Media and why I would want to “tell the whole world all my business”.  My father doesn’t understand why I want to “wear my heart on my sleeve”.  “What am I getting out of this?” he asked.  I tried to explain it to them, but they just did not get it.

twitter-birdI wasn’t even trying, but in the 8 months that I have been on Twitter, I have built a personal brand.  I am known for the horrible year I’ve had, my #stinkytweets, my love for Dave Matthews and my humor among other things.  Basically, I am known for being me. And me, I’m a pretty open person, always have been.  Why close to 10,000 people care about what I had for breakfast, or how I am doing after my oral surgery, I don’t know.  But they do.  And I love them for it.  I care about them too.

People ask me, are you worried about identity theft? You put a lot of personal information up on the internet.  To be honest, no. I really don’t have anything to lose.  I’m flat broke.  No one would even be able to get a credit card in my name! Good luck to them! If I wasn’t so open about my life, Save Becky would never have been.  I would have kept my troubles in and this probably would have slowly killed me.  I have gotten so much from the friendships I have made online.  I would never change a thing.  My online presence is what “Saved Becky”. It made me into who I am today.  Am I being transparent? Maybe so.  Should I be? Absolutely.





  • http://classroomconfessions.wordpress.com Camile

    Hi! Thanks for the comments on my blog!
    It’s funny because my mom and I were just having this exact conversation after I sent her a link to something on my blog. She thinks my blog is quote “dangerous” and that I will probably get fired for writing about my job.

    My arguments:
    - how can I get fired if my place of work and the names of people there are not revealed?
    - I NEED to write, to share myself, to carve out a niche where I can connect to others.

    As a woman who goes online once a week and can’t even upload a picture, she was just not understanding me.
    Anyway, I love the blog and I’ll def be checking back often :)

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